diff --git a/documentation/topics/managing_relationships.md b/documentation/topics/managing_relationships.md
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+# Managing Relationships
+
+In Ash, managing related data is done via `Ash.Changeset.manage_relationship/4`. There are various ways to leverage the functionality expressed there. If you are working with changesets directly, you can call that function. However, if you want that logic to be portable (e.g available in `ash_graphql` mutations and `ash_json_api` actions), then you want to use the following `argument` + `change` pattern:
+
+```elixir
+actions do
+  update :update do
+    argument :add_comment, :map do
+      allow_nil? false
+    end
+
+    argument :tags, {:array, :uuid} do
+      allow_nil? false
+    end
+
+    # First argument is the name of the action argument to use
+    # Second argument is the relationship to be managed
+    # Third argument is options. For more, see `Ash.Changeset.manage_relationship/4`. This accepts the same options.
+    change manage_relationship(:add_comment, :comments, type: :create)
+
+    # Second argument can be ommitted, as the argument name is the same as the relationship
+    change manage_relationship(:tags, type: :replace)
+  end
+end
+```
+
+With this, those arguments can be used simply in action input: 
+
+```elixir
+post
+|> Ash.Changeset.for_update(:update, tags: [tag1_uuid, tag2_uuid], add_comment: %{text: "comment text"})
+|> MyApi.update!()
+```
+
+It gets even simpler if you are using the `code_interface`, for example:
+
+```elixir
+# With this in your resource
+code_interface do
+  define :update_post, action: :update
+end
+
+# You can use it like so:
+
+MyApi.update_post!(%{tags: [tag1_uuid, tag2_uuid], add_comment: %{text: "comment text"}})
+```
+
+## Argument Types
+
+Notice how we provided a map as input to `add_comment`. The only types supported by `manage_relationship` are values that map to the primary key of the resource, which is why `tags` allowed the list of `:uuid`s. However, `%{text: "comment text"}` must be a map,
+as it will eventually be passed to a create action on the `Comment` resource. The ergonomics of this are still being worked out, but there are ways to make it such that your action accepts input like `add_comment: "comment text"`. For now, the only way to do it would be by adding a private argument to hold the proper input for `add_comment`, and a change to set that argument, based on the provided value. For example:
+
+```elixir
+defmodule MyApp.Post.Changes.SetAddCommentArgument do
+  use Ash.Resource.Change
+
+
+  def change(changeset, _, _) do
+    case Ash.Changeset.fetch_argument(changeset, :add_comment) do
+      {:ok, comment_text} -> Ash.Changeset.set_argument(changeset, :private_add_comment, %{text: comment_text})
+      :error -> changeset
+    end
+  end
+end
+
+actions do
+  update :update do
+    argument :add_comment, :string do
+      allow_nil? false
+    end
+
+    argument :private_add_comment, :map do
+      # Extensions know not to expose private arguments
+      private? true
+    end
+
+    change MyApp.Post.Changes.SetAddCommentArgument
+
+    change manage_relationship(:private_add_comment, :comments, type: :create)
+  end
+end
+```
+
+## Graphql Input Types
+
+In `ash_graphql`, a type of `:map` simply translates to `:json`. Right now, there is nothing that can automatically generate the requisite input object for a given argument that eventually gets passed to `manage_relationship/3`. So if you want typed input objects to use with those arguments, you will need to use a custom map type implementation, and have it refer to a custom `absinthe` type. Thankfully, `absinthe` makes it very easy to define new input_object types. For example:
+
+```elixir
+defmodule MyApp.Types.CreateCommentInput do
+  use Ash.Type
+
+  def graphql_input_type, do: :create_comment_input
+
+  defdelegate storage_type, to: Ash.Type.Map
+  defdelegate cast_input(value, constraints), to: Ash.Type.Map
+  defdelegate cast_stored(value, constraints), to: Ash.Type.Map
+  defdelegate dump_to_native(value, constraints), to: Ash.Type.Map
+end
+```
+
+Given that type definition, you could then add the following to your absinthe schema:
+
+```elixir
+input_object :create_comment_input do
+   field :text, :string
+end
+```
+
+We're open to suggestions on making this process more ergonomic in general.
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diff --git a/lib/ash/changeset/changeset.ex b/lib/ash/changeset/changeset.ex
index 7a5bb8ba..a4d7b7c3 100644
--- a/lib/ash/changeset/changeset.ex
+++ b/lib/ash/changeset/changeset.ex
@@ -1109,8 +1109,8 @@ defmodule Ash.Changeset do
           * `:ignore`(default) - those inputs are ignored
           * `:create` - the records are created using the destination's primary create action
           * `{:create, :action_name}` - the records are created using the specified action on the destination resource
-          * `{:create, :action_name, :join_table_action_name, [:list, :of, :join_table, :params]}` - Same as `{:update, :action_name}` but takes
-              the list of params specified out and applies them when creating the join table row.
+          * `{:create, :action_name, :join_table_action_name, [:list, :of, :join_table, :params]}` - Same as `{:create, :action_name}` but takes
+              the list of params specified out and applies them when creating the join table row, with the provided join_table_action_name.
           * `:error`  - an eror is returned indicating that a record would have been created
             *  If `on_lookup` is set, and the data contained a primary key or identity, then the error is a `NotFound` error
             * Otherwise, an `InvalidRelationship` error is returned
diff --git a/mix.exs b/mix.exs
index 60b88a8d..ac83a42b 100644
--- a/mix.exs
+++ b/mix.exs
@@ -50,6 +50,9 @@ defmodule Ash.MixProject do
         "documentation/introduction/getting_started_phx.md": [
           title: "Getting Started with Phoenix"
         ],
+        "documentation/topics/managing_relationships.md": [
+          title: "Managing Relationships"
+        ],
         "documentation/topics/authorization.md": [
           title: "Authorization"
         ],